The Gift of Paying It Forward

James Tan

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When was the last time you received kindness from somebody? When was the last time you extended an act of kindness to someone else, and to what end? As it turns out, there can be tremendous merits and outcomes in paying forward a kindness received with a good deed to somebody else, especially when done out of gratitude. The concept of "Paying It Forward" is nothing new, but in our world, I believe we could do with more compassion and selflessness as it brings out the best in us.

The Art of Paying it Forward Without Spending a Dime

When we pay it forward we commit an act of selflessness that transcends our connection to other humans on the planet, elevating the human experience in a positive way. Whether it’s a showing of kindness, faith, or even compassion, it all makes a difference and can potentially trigger a chain reaction of reciprocated behavior.

The Power of Altruism

Classical economics adopts a model that says people are primarily driven by material self-interest. Political science assumes that people are driven to maximize their power. But this worldview is clearly wrong. In real life, the push of selfishness is matched by the pull of empathy and altruism. This is not Hallmark card sentimentalism but scientific fact: As babies our neural connections are built by love and care. We have evolved to be really good at cooperation and empathy. We are strongly motivated to teach and help others.

The Paying it Forward Paradox | Wayne Baker | TEDxUofM

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Connie Wee, Retiree

"James was very clear and patient in his explanation of the pitfalls and considerations when setting up a lasting power of attorney and Will. I did not know that there were so many areas to consider and am rather surprised that a financial consultant would have the knowledge to actually guide me on these areas. He plans with the best of intentions for his client.”

Rosemary Tan, Sales Manager

"James has done a great job managing my investment portfolio and is also taking care of all of my family's financial needs from insurance to mortgage loans. He is responsive and able to offer me up to date information on everything from CPF rules to personal taxation matters. I feel assured knowing everything is well taken care of."

Rei Wang, Training Manager

“James is very giving in his advice, and value-adds with his objectivity and authenticity. The comprehensive report he customises for his clients is extremely insightful, by providing a consolidated view of their financial position. If you are looking for someone that embodies passion and professionalism in financial planning, James is the person you should talk to.”

Elaine Tan, Director of a charity organization

James is very professional in executing his work as a financial advisor, with deep knowledge and looking after my interests that suit my life situation, unstintingly sharing what he knows. He even went the extra miles in guiding me to become a coach. Here is the guy for you: sincere, knowledgeable and ever willing to share . Glad to have known you James!

Ryner Choong, Relationship Manager (Priority Offshore)

“Thank you so much for teaching and sharing your experience with me. I honestly learnt a lot and I am really blessed to be taught by you. Although this entire training experience was just two days but I think I’ve gained even more than what I expected to learn in months.”